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We have quite a bit going on as a family these days.  We're getting ready to move our lives from Illinois to Texas in a matter of two weeks.  And these days are filled with preparation on both ends to ensure that we move in one piece and as unscathed as possible.  There are things like jobs, school, household items, cars, houses on both ends, and all the coordination it takes to make it happen.  Oh, then throw in that wonderful husband's travel schedule has imploded and he's been on the road for three weeks straight.  Not to worry - I can do hard things!

And I will continue to do them.

So when he was back home for the weekend I was pleasantly surprised when he suggested that we all get outside on Saturday and walk the trails of the local park.  We did four miles together.  Our daughter on her scooter a safe distance ahead of us and us enjoying the scenery and talking on and off about the move.

It was wonderful.  The weather was perfect.  The mood was terrific.  And in the end I was thrilled to have gotten the miles done - together.

Imagine my surprise when he suggested it again on Sunday!  Nothing short of a miracle I tell you!  And we again enjoyed our time and promised to keep this up as a family - weekends until we move to Texas - and during the week once we're all together again!

There's something to be said to having a commitment that is shared.  It gives us a sense of accountability as well as companionship during the journey.  I love that we're in it together.  All of us.  And to feel better for the effort was a wonderful end to a magical weekend!


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  1. Where in TX are you moving? I'm from there (even though we live in KS now!).

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    1. Hi Kim - we're moving to the Dallas area from central IL. This is 3 years after moving from VA - and we're originally from upstate New York. Gotta love an adventure! What part of TX are you from?

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